What I think about…TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE
A traditional view of marriage must be upheld to ensure the strength and prosperity of future generations of Americans. This is a key issue that must transcend party lines and be preserved by all freedom lovers of the United States. Our true strength as a nation does not flow from our military might or our financial prosperity. It flows from the core values upon which our nation was founded. Our values underscore our beliefs about God, family, and country. It is those values and beliefs that set us apart as unique in the eyes of the world and in turn make us a great nation under God. The heart and life-blood of American society is the family unit. There is no debating the fact that children raised in a traditional family with a mother and a father are far better off than those who are not. A child needs the balance of male and female leadership and guidance. He needs to learn about love, discipline, and faith from his parents. Schools should complement what is being taught in the home, but the real educating about how to live and function as a responsible citizen should be provided by Mom and Dad. The influence that parents have on their children cannot be overemphasized. That is not to say that single parents cannot overcome their adverse circumstances and prove to do an exemplary job at raising their children. However, they will most often be the first to tell you, that their situation is far less than ideal. Statistics show that kids raised without a mother or a father and particularly when born out of wedlock, are likely to be pushed into a lifestyle of poverty and welfare. They are more prone to drugs and crime. They often drop out of school and acquire low-paying, dead-end jobs, if they get jobs at all. Again, this is certainly not the story of every child raised outside of a traditional family environment, but unfortunately it does prove to be the norm more often than not. Americans must understand that marriage is instituted by God in the Bible. It is to be for one man and one woman for life. Divorce, same-sex marriage, premarital sex, and unprepared/underage marriage breaks down the strength of our family structure.
What can be done?
1) A federal constitutional amendment is needed that defines marriage as a union between one man and one woman. Same-sex marriages should not be recognized on the federal or the state level.
2) The Defense of Marriage Act was passed and became law on September 21, 1996. It must be supported and upheld as law. It declares that no state or political subdivision within the United States has to recognize persons of the same sex as married, even if their relationship is declared as a marriage in another state. It also maintains that the Federal government is not permitted to consider same-sex relationships as marriages for any purpose, even if they are viewed as marriages in certain states.
3) All must commit to be part of the solution, not the problem. Enter into “holy matrimony” only after giving careful thought and prayer to that monumental decision. Take advantage of every resource available to prepare for marriage, such as pre-marital counseling, books, and seminars on marriage. Train the next generation to have a reverent view of marriage and to commit to sexual abstinence in relationships until they are married.








